Blog – cheney dot me

There’s no point in me rehashing this in detail so I’ll keep it brief:

I’ve been writing on the Internet for as long as the Internet has existed, but due to my imposter syndrome, I have deleted all of those blogs and stories except the ones I still have on Medium.

I don’t need to learn anything from anyone when I am reading blogs online, and I don’t feel like this is the place where I am going to bring readers to teach them something I barely know.

I barely know anything, so how could I, anyway?

But here’s the thing.

I am very excited about starting a new story – literally and metaphorically, but particularly a new, long, fiction project, and if I am going to try that again, I am going to need someone or someplace to complain to about how hard it is to write a book.

Then, I need to whine and cry and be supported when I get to the hardest part – editing a book well enough to think that it will sell.

I hope I don’t bother anyone.

I may post a little, I may post a lot.

I’ve found myself crushing on Bluesky lately and I want to be one of those people who get to say:

“I finished my first draft today!”

So, I suppose I should figure out what the hell I want to write about at all.

I promise you no “good” content.

There will probably not be any “good” essays unless there are ones I crosspost on Medium.

But there will be me, dumping my brain.

This is your warning that you should not follow me unless you are interested in the writer’s journeys of people who barely make time to write fiction in the first place.

The not-Writers.

The not-writing writers.

I don’t want to be one of those people anymore, so wish me luck.

_{Photo by Suzy Hazelwood}

I woke up at 5:30 this morning, which I try to do every day that I work my day job.

See how I said “work my day job”?

Maybe if I keep telling myself it’s just my day job, I will once again be able to tell people with confidence that I am a writer.

A writer who has barely written or shared anything she’s written in years, besides snippets of poetry and prose catered to prompts.

Not that I’m complaining about writing prompts, I love writing prompts. They get me writing faster and with more speed and enthusiasm than any other kind of inspiration I ever find.

The last time I had COVID-19 was in mid-December of 2022, and I have not felt the same since.

After that last infection, which burned through me, literally manifesting itself as a fever that stayed over 103 for a day and above 100 for three days with no respiratory symptoms at all, I have remained somewhat broken.

I developed high blood pressure and tachycardia for the first time in my life, and now I’m on medications for both of those things.

My body seems like it’s not able to produce and/or store vitamin B-12 and iron, so now I give myself a shot of B-12 once a month, and I’ve been seeing a hematologist at the cancer hospital to see if, after two iron infusions, my body holds on to it.

I have hot flashes like a woman in the midst of menopause and I only just turned 42.

But the worst thing?

I am just so. fucking. tired. all. the. time.

The worst part, I think, is that I am most tired when I wake up.

It’s a daily fight for my life to get out of bed, start moving, and start trying like hell to shake off the weight of the exhaustion that rises with me every morning.

My psychiatrist doesn’t believe me that I am most tired in the morning and become more alert as the day goes on – to the point when some nights I have to force myself to get in bed because I don’t feel sleepy.

It’s making me miserable, depressed.

It’s making me not look forward to waking up in the morning, and that right there is a slippery slope.

Want to hear the real bitch of it?

I had a sleep study scheduled for last Friday night (after waiting nearly six months to get into the clinic) only to have them call me Friday morning and say “Sorry, we have to reschedule because your technician called out sick for the night.”

Now I have to wait another 26 days.

Not like anyone’s counting.

Not like it matters to anyone but me.

I signed up for Mastodon last night, because I am not going back to Twitter, and I am hesitant to start using Instagram again.

Facebook is out of the question, but Bluesky may be a possibility if I can’t figure out Mastodon.

I’ve concluded that yes, when it comes to my writing, (at least some of my writing) I DO want to share with the world.

Between complaints about my health and all the writing about not writing, I’d really love to use this space ( MY SPACE!) to work on my craft, or on myself, every day.

I am a poet and forgot it.

I am a writer of fictional stories and novels.

I am a writer of creative non-fiction and essays.

I am a writer who hasn’t been sharing her writing because I have such low self-esteem, I don’t expect people to pay attention, I don’t expect people to comment – I expect people to ridicule me.

I have to get over that.

I hope whoever’s reading this helps me and doesn’t hurt me even more than I have been in the last 42 years.